Is there a person on the planet who doesn’t want to be happy? Probably not. After all, happiness makes life more pleasant. And studies show that contented humans live longer than miserable ones, and are less inclined to turn to crime and much more likely to form relationships.
is a hot topic. Various governments, including our own, are bent on
measuring it. This is because they’ve woken up to scientific claims that
happy adults are more productive – and are therefore good for the
But isn’t it
unnatural to be happy all the time? As one of my depressed clients
recently asked: ‘Aren’t I entitled to be sad if I want to be?’
Of course, in her case her illness
meant that, at first, she was very resistant to treatment –
psychotherapy takes hard work and some tough self-examination. But it
did make me think: should we just accept unhappiness as a natural state
The answer is
no. True happiness is not about being perpetually chirpy. But neither
does it have much to do with the momentary ecstasy we might feel when
our team scores a goal, or we make an impulse buy of some lovely shoes.
about a deeper sense of contentment and, and about valuing ourselves,
and others. It’s also about looking for positives in situations, and
feeling confident that we have the resilience to deal with life’s
reverses. And this, I believe, is achievable for all.
Source - Daily Mail